Unhealthy Boundaries in Relationships is Messy
Messy life with relationships? Is it hard for you to say no? Do you feel people take advantage of you because of a lack of boundaries in relationships? Show up anyway.
What are healthy boundaries in relationships?
Why do people have unhealthy boundaries in relationships? For many reasons, a person usually struggles with insecurities. Insecurities are rooted in rejection. So, a person was often not validated or valued growing up. There is a fear of saying "No" because of disappointing others. Many times a person will be a familiar - being accommodating others.
What Causes Poor Boundaries?
Unfortunately, the person does not take care of themselves or lacks identity. Their identity accommodates everyone else to maintain unity, but it only sometimes works. Unfortunately, when someone is disappointed in them, they may have anxious thoughts or anxiety.
Then, life will suck the wind from your sails…. God is faithful and wants far more for us than we imagine when fear and rejection are broken by paying attention to the enemy's lies.
Love this “messy” life. And I love that I get to bring along others for the ride.
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