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Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Why We Bearing Others Burdens?

False Responsibility for Others

Learn the Characteristics of a burden bearer

Why We Bearing Others Burdens?

What exactly is false burden-bearing? The Characteristic of a False burden-bearer is false responsibility for others. It is when you cannot release a person or persons to the Lord and will try to make things happen for them. You feel responsible for them and will even be their Holy Spirit.

The scripture tells us to bear our brother's burden; it means to join with them and not become a pack mule. In Galatians 6:1-5 it says:

"1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such a one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. 2 Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. 4 But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For every man shall bear his own burden."

You do want to come alongside them! We are to support them during their trials. You are not there to solve their solutions. You want to avoid becoming consumed with their thoughts over the situation and person (children, parents, or someone they care about).

False Burden Bearing is rooted in rejection! The enemy is tricky and will use your feelings of rejection to try to get you to help others so that you will feel accepted. It is meeting a need in you to help others.

Why does Satan use False Burden Bearing? Satan’s job is to rob the person of their peace and get their eyes on the situation and off of Christ. It is to overburden them. It is to get that person to get involved and become consumed. It has a plan to destroy one in spirit, body, and soul. It brings torment to man, as no other spirit can accomplish.

How to Recognize False Responsibilities

How do you know how to recognize False Burden Bearing? A person will say that they do pray for them. Check to see if your mind is thinking about that person and event throughout the day and if you are trying to devise solutions for them. If you are, then you are False Burden Bearing!

Why is False Burden Bearing Bad? When we falsely burden a person over an event, the Lord cannot come for that person because the person with the false burden is consumed in their life and is blocking God’s hand. It is a no-win situation. Satan wants to rob everyone’s peace. It also causes the other person to become codependent on the person with the false burden.

What is it really? The Word says in 1 Peter 5:7 to cast our cares to Him because he cares. If you continually think about and consume a person's situation, it is a lack of trust in the Lord. We need to be doers of the Word by applying God's word. We can pray for friends and family but then release them to the Lord. Know the Lord is going to take care of them. Put them on the altar and leave them there! If you pick them up again, give them back to the Lord. Learn to trust the Lord in all situations!

Some of the diseases coming out of False Burden Bearing:

  • Hyperthyroidism
  • Irritable bowel syndrome
  • Crohn's disease
  • Kyphosis
  • Back Pain
  • Scoliosis

False burden-bearing!

False burden-bearing is under the unloving spirit.  When we become someone's Holy Spirit, feel responsible for them, and don't take care of ourselves.

It will consume your thoughts about that person (their situation or need).  A person cannot release them to the Lord and will try to make things happen to them because of False Burden Bearing.

We can pray and release.  When they cannot get off their minds, false burden-bearing goes on.  Then, it has not been released to the Lord.  We should be able to pray and release them to the Lord, knowing he cares for them.  Then, do the things we need to do with peace.  When we are false burden-bearing, the Lord cannot come in because the false burden-bearing thing blocks God's moving in their lives.  Plus, it steals your peace.  It is a very subtle way that the enemy uses on his children.

That is one area I have to watch in my life.  I used to be such a big, false, burden-bearing person.  When I get into that thinking, and it has consumed me, and I cannot stop thinking about it, then I know I've gone into sin over it and have to cast it out of me.  Then, I'm able to release it much better.  If I catch myself doing it and I can give it to the Lord with faith, then I don't have to cast it out.  I've come out of agreement with it.  It has not consumed me yet.  The enemy wants to get our thoughts off Christ and be burdened with things. Also, to steal our peace and be burdened over the situation or event.

False burden Bearing - phone message

Enemy comes as an angel of light.  Many people don't see the work of the enemy in good deeds.

There are positive emotions that are against God that are right out of hell.  PPD.  Competition, etc.

FBB - take people as assignments.  They take them as successes or failures and blame themselves for not working hard enough, etc.

  • I'm not responsible for a person's disease -  I'm not the devil
  • I'm not responsible for a person's healing because I'm not God.
  • It makes me a servant.  I can only do for a person as they allow me to do.

If she feels responsible for them - she has a sympathetic nervous system.  Entered into a type of fear and self-rejection, feels personally responsible.


Guilt and fear issues.

The person becomes a god to others to help others - caretakers.  I can care for a person but not live their life for them.

He that receives the message is not greater than the one that gives it.

Don't let anyone drag you down to make you responsible for your sickness.

Philippians 25:30 he long after you all ... heaviness ... sick ...

Coach Teresa Morin, Anxious2Victorious Women 12-Week Program - Break the Cycle of Anxiety, Honoree of Marques Who's Who of America

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Monday, December 11, 2023

Fear of Man in the Bible*

A Spirit Fear of Man in the Bible

Five Steps to Overcoming Fear of Man

You can break free from fear of man

Solomon tells us the “fear of man will prove to be a snare” (Proverbs 29:25). Just as an animal caught in a trap can't perform its God-given function when you or I give in to the fear of man, we can't do what God is calling us to do.

'Fear of Man' (simply) describes caring about what a man (male or female) will do to you, what the person thinks about you, how you appear to others, and whether your actions or lack of actions will please others. The torment never ends. That's one way you can recognize it. (Is there any torment in your thoughts toward that person, yourself, or God?)

Fear of man causes people to please and try to live up to their expectations. This can cause anxiety attacks. 

You have to understand how the accuser of Rev.12:10 operates. We are born into a world of accusation and are so accustomed to it that we often think it's our own thoughts or even the thoughts of God. You also have to deal with victimization on many levels-generationally, yourself, and addiction (because sometimes it's such a part of our lives, we wouldn't know what to do if we were not being victimized). Rejection is also a big issue. Also, I agreed with the spirit of 'fear of evil in man.'

The best way to come out of agreement with the spirit of 'fear of man' is to agree with God's word. Here are some scriptures to start meditating on. Continue to search the scriptures for yourself and let them build your faith in God and His word.

Fear of Man Scripture

Mat 10:28 And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
Mat 10:29 Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father.
Mat 10:30 But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.
Mat 10:31 Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.

Pro 1:33 But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.

1 Jo 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
Jesus was and is the example of this for us.

Psa 33:18 Behold, the eye of the LORD is upon them that fear him, upon them that hope in his mercy;
Psa 33:19 To deliver their soul from death, and to keep them alive in famine.
Psa 33:20 Our soul waiteth for the LORD: he is our help and our shield.
Psa 33:21 For our heart shall rejoice in him, because we have trusted in his holy name.
Psa 33:22 Let thy mercy, O LORD, be upon us, according as we hope in thee.

Psa 60:11 Give us help from trouble: for vain is the help of man.
Psa 60:12 Through God we shall do valiantly: for he it is that shall tread down our enemies.

We now know who our enemies are. Eph 6:12 "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."

So, as we continue to do the walkout, the 5 steps to overcome the fear of man, 'the fear of man' will be recognized and defeated.

The Five Steps to Overcoming Fear of Man:

1. Recognize the negative thought of fear of man
2. Repent and renounce to come out of agreement with the fear of man
3. Remove it by casting it down - 2 Cor. 10:5 the thought of fear of man
4. Stop Replay of the fear of man
5. Reframe your thoughts with God's truth