Why We Bearing Others Burdens?

False Responsibility for Others

Learn the Characteristics of a burden bearer

What exactly is false burden-bearing? The Characteristic of a False burden-bearer is false responsibility for others. It is when you cannot release a person or persons to the Lord and will try to make things happen for them. You feel responsible for them and will even be their Holy Spirit.

The scripture tells us to bear our brother's burden; it means to join with them and not become a pack mule. In Galatians 6:1-5 it says:

"1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such a one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. 2 Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. 4 But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For every man shall bear his own burden."

You do want to come alongside them! We are to support them during their trials. You are not there to solve their solutions. You want to avoid becoming consumed with their thoughts over the situation and person (children, parents, or someone they care about).

False Burden Bearing is rooted in rejection! The enemy is tricky and will use your feelings of rejection to try to get you to help others so that you will feel accepted. It is meeting a need in you to help others.

Why does Satan use False Burden Bearing? Satan’s job is to rob the person of their peace and get their eyes on the situation and off of Christ. It is to overburden them. It is to get that person to get involved and become consumed. It has a plan to destroy one in spirit, body, and soul. It brings torment to man, as no other spirit can accomplish.

How to Recognize False Responsibilities

How do you know how to recognize False Burden Bearing? A person will say that they do pray for them. Check to see if your mind is thinking about that person and event throughout the day and if you are trying to devise solutions for them. If you are, then you are False Burden Bearing!

Why is False Burden Bearing Bad? When we falsely burden a person over an event, the Lord cannot come for that person because the person with the false burden is consumed in their life and is blocking God’s hand. It is a no-win situation. Satan wants to rob everyone’s peace. It also causes the other person to become codependent on the person with the false burden.

What is it really? The Word says in 1 Peter 5:7 to cast our cares to Him because he cares. If you continually think about and consume a person's situation, it is a lack of trust in the Lord. We need to be doers of the Word by applying God's word. We can pray for friends and family but then release them to the Lord. Know the Lord is going to take care of them. Put them on the altar and leave them there! If you pick them up again, give them back to the Lord. Learn to trust the Lord in all situations!

Some of the diseases coming out of False Burden Bearing:

• Hyperthyroidism
• Irritable bowel syndrome
• Crohn's disease
• Kyphosis
• Back Pain
• Scoliosis

False burden-bearing!

False burden-bearing is under the unloving spirit.  When we become someone's Holy Spirit, feel responsible for them, and don't take care of ourselves.

It will consume your thoughts about that person (their situation or need).  A person cannot release them to the Lord and will try to make things happen to them because of False Burden Bearing.

We can pray and release.  When they cannot get off their minds, false burden-bearing goes on.  Then, it has not been released to the Lord.  We should be able to pray and release them to the Lord, knowing he cares for them.  Then, do the things we need to do with peace.  When we are false burden-bearing, the Lord cannot come in because the false burden-bearing thing blocks God's moving in their lives.  Plus, it steals your peace.  It is a very subtle way that the enemy uses on his children.

That is one area I have to watch in my life.  I used to be such a big, false, burden-bearing person.  When I get into that thinking, and it has consumed me, and I cannot stop thinking about it, then I know I've gone into sin over it and have to cast it out of me.  Then, I'm able to release it much better.  If I catch myself doing it and I can give it to the Lord with faith, then I don't have to cast it out.  I've come out of agreement with it.  It has not consumed me yet.  The enemy wants to get our thoughts off Christ and be burdened with things. Also, to steal our peace and be burdened over the situation or event.

False burden Bearing - phone message


Enemy comes as an angel of light.  Many people don't see the work of the enemy in good deeds.

There are positive emotions that are against God that are right out of hell.  PPD.  Competition, etc.

FBB - take people as assignments.  They take them as successes or failures and blame themselves for not working hard enough, etc.

• I'm not responsible for a person's disease -  I'm not the devil
• I'm not responsible for a person's healing because I'm not God.
• It makes me a servant.  I can only do for a person as they allow me to do.

If she feels responsible for them - she has a sympathetic nervous system.  Entered into a type of fear and self-rejection, feels personally responsible.

Sicknesses:

Guilt and fear issues.

The person becomes a god to others to help others - caretakers.  I can care for a person but not live their life for them.


He that receives the message is not greater than the one that gives it.

Don't let anyone drag you down to make you responsible for your sickness.

Philippians 25:30 he long after you all ... heaviness ... sick ...

Coach Teresa Morin, Anxious2Victorious Women 12-Week Program - Break the Cycle of Anxiety, Honoree of Marques Who's Who of America

Do you suffer from social or generalized anxiety?

Jesus loves you and wants to take your social and/or generalized anxiety from you so that you can live an abundant and whole life in Christ Jesus, reaching your desired goals either in life or your career. I want to see as many as possible receive freedom, peace, and confidence in what God created you to become with purpose.

I released a FREE complimentary book and want to give you a free gift of stories of people who have overcome fear, along with one of my steps to help you get started.

Download a free digital PDF book on how to get rid of anxiety forever. There is no need for a shipping address. Go to https://www.touchofgod.org/anxiety-help. You will learn the root cause of social anxiety.

I would love to go deeper with you to overcome social anxiety. So, jump on a one-on-one call with me where we can map out a personal blueprint to conquer social fear. Schedule a free 45-minute call with me. I will teach you one key out of three to help you start your healing journey. 

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How to Overcome Fear of Future

How to Overcome Fear of the Future

Why Worrying About the Future is Pointless Until Broken!

Are you an excessive worrier, and anxiety blocking you from the peace of life or success?

• Does it interfere with your walk with the Lord?
• Does it stop you from moving forward in your career?
• Does it interfere with your decisions?
• How about in relationships?

Do you have dreams and desires you want to accomplish, but they stop you because of worry and anxiety? Do you need help stepping out into new things? Does your concern involve “what if it does not work?”

Don't Worry About the Future

There is a way out. It is changing the thoughts. In some programs, it is all about you changing your studies yourself.– alone. How has that worked for you so far? In God’s way, you trust God’s word to reframe your thinking. Guess what you are in partnership with Him. Bonus: you grow in the Lord, break free, and find freedom. Isn't it time to overcome anxiety attacks triggered by worry?

Does that make sense? I used to suffer from excessive worry instead of trusting in the Lord. I was insecure with myself – I didn’t trust my decisions.

I learned the power of God, who empowers you to transform yourself in Him. When I did that, I excelled in my career and was promoted to senior content manager. I learned to trust God. Not only that, I started a side business and a flourishing ministry that allowed me to travel the globe, setting others free and training ministers.

Do you suffer from social anxiety or some form of stress that is holding you back from your purpose?

I would love to go deeper with you to overcome social anxiety. So, jump on a one-on-one call with me where we can map out a personal blueprint to conquer social fear. Schedule a free 45-minute call with me. 

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Reward Accomplishments if you Break your Habits

Oct 23, 2021

Life becomes more worth living when you know that for every good thing that you did, a reward is bound to come your way. By this time, you already know that stopping your addictions is possible only if you will really put your heart and mind to it. The last but definitely not the least tool for you to completely free yourself from your bad habits is learning to reward yourself for every accomplishment that you make.

Through meaningful rewards, you can be more motivated to do better the next day and you will strive even harder to make sure that you will get another great reward in the future. With this kind of inspiration and motivation, you will have the drive to become better and better every day as you finish your journey to complete recovery from your addiction.

Every Accomplishment Deserves a Good Reward

Reward systems are being used in many situations today. At home, in schools and even in workplaces, a reward system is considered as a helpful tool for people to do better. This serves as a motivation for the children to do their chores at home. Students learn to embrace their lessons better and complete their homework because they know that they will be rewarded for everything that they do.

Employees feel more valued and appreciated when their employees reward them for their achievements. Reward systems can certainly do wonders when it comes to inspiring people to strive better and even in your recovery from addiction, rewarding yourself for every accomplishment that you make can inspire you to move forward and finish what you have started.

Maybe you could say no to your friends’ invitation to go to the bar after work. Perhaps the sight of marijuana no longer made you feel any cravings to take a toke. Maybe you were able to stop yourself from watching the porn video that popped up during your search.

These things might seem like a simple accomplishment for others, but for those who are addicted to alcohol, marijuana, and pornography, these simple actions are a giant leap on their way to recovery, and these things definitely deserve some reward.

The rewards will be all up to. You can either set it for yourself or ask your family and friends to give you something for every accomplishment you make. The main point here is that you will get something good out of being able to resist the lure of your addictions.

At the end of the day, it is not really the reward that matters. What matters is that even if there is no reward, it will now be easier for you to say No to your addictions. This is because you have already accepted in your heart and mind that your bad habits will never do you any good, and letting them go is the only way for you to live the kind of life you want, the life you deserve.

Hopefully, this article has helped you in learning how to stop your addictions. Use the tools you discovered to break free from all your bad habits.

Teresa Morin
Anxious2Victorious Women Coaching Program - Kicking Out Anxiety

My Testimonial Story and Encouragement

My Story of Encouragement 

Teresa Morin Shares Her Testimony of Hope to Others

I would love to share my story of hope with you so that you are encouraged that all things are possible with Christ. It is getting the right keys and applying them to overcome social anxiety.

Sitting at my desk, I crossed my fingers under my desk, hoping the teacher would not call on me. Unfortunately, she did, and all eyes turned towards me. I freaked out and froze in my seat. I grabbed the chair with my hands for dear life. I could feel the facial spasms, blushing rapidly, and my heart was about to jump out of my chest when I tried to answer. My voice was shaking, and you could hardly hear me. I was afraid of saying something wrong and being judged by my classmates. The class started to laugh, tease, and make fun of me since my face was getting redder and redder. I felt so small, embarrassed, and humiliated. The room started to spin, and I wanted to hide or run out of the classroom. I felt so stupid. Later, my shyness kept me from getting promotions in my career.

Can you relate? Do you have eyes on you, afraid of saying the wrong thing? There is hope to get to the place of not caring what people think but becoming the genuine self with peace and hope. No longer being overlooked.

2. Today, I am no longer that 12-year-old girl terrified of being called upon. I gained my voice and conquered social anxiety and shyness. I no longer fear talking to authority figures or sharing my opinions in a meeting. I am now getting promotions and raises. Best of all, I don’t worry about people judging me for what I say.

I fight for you to find your voice and start your path to transforming social anxiety into self-confidence to get those promotions you want or live life free, not being held back in the areas you want to exceed. 

In my program, I have five keys to help you identify and understand the situations that trigger your anxiety. Then, overcome them and live again.

keep them with you, hang them on your bathroom mirror, and speak over yourself every morning so that you start down that highway of self-confidence.

If you want to get free from social anxiety, sign up for my coaching program by clicking on the free strategy call link to map out your personal blueprint.

My 12-week coaching program helps you overcome that shyness through my step-by-step process to help you identify the lies and insecurity you live with. Transform yourself from your false beliefs and start living what God says about you confidently and without fear of judgment.

Long gone are the days of sitting at the kitchen table with my dad yelling at me, telling me how stupid I was while trying to figure out a math problem. I am no longer a shy and invisible 12-year-old girl who was fearful and anxious to speak up. You can also flourish like I did in Christ and gain confidence in getting the desired promotions you want by gaining your voice.

Our Identity in Christ

 

Our Identity In Christ

We as Christians really knew who we really were in Christ, the devil and his cohorts would shake in fear. That is why the battle is between our ears or through other people to define us opposite of God’s truth. The devil does not want us to know the truth.

If Christians knew who they were and were secure, we would not see church splits, power struggles, etc. Because we are all very special to the Lord. No one is more important than others.

Do you feel like you know who you are in Christ?

Are there things in the past that keep you from knowing who you are?

Do you perform or work to get God’s love?

Why is that?

Do you think we could all relate as a body of Christ if we knew the common interest and Goals of the Lord for the Church?

The Lord said some to be prophets, teachers, preachers, apostles, and evanglists. Ephesians 4 – to build up the body until the body reaches maturity and unity. The fivefold ministry is to be speaking to the body, bringing them together and causing us unified and to get out of diverse and get on meat and steak, not milk – Hebrews 5:13-14. Become mature and not babies anymore.

The body of Christ is to become like him. So, how does this happen?

How are we going to know the thoughts of God when we are in a world that is broken?

We have that answer through the Holy Spirit. Paul said 1 Corinthians 2:10-16

But God has revealed them to us through His Spirit. For the Spirit searches all things, yes, the deep things of God. For what man knows the things of a man except the spirit of the man which is in him? Even so, no one knows the things of God except the Spirit of God.

We don’t know the thoughts of God, but the spirit does.

We are released into our future, but it is not based on our emotions.

Reading your bible, praying but it might not be enough. It must be an expectancy from heaven that is supernatural.

You do your part and let God do the rest and then honor him and invite him into every situation.

Even in your bible reading, praying, and fasting is not going to be enough unless God supernaturally helps you in the days ahead.

God must take you into his realm and you must operate there on a daily basis. We must be ignited. When we truly learn how to enter into the realm of God, then we can know who we are.

The Bible says we are royal priests 1 Peter 2:9 – what does that mean?

We are not part of this world. We live in it, but our identity is in him to pull down the enemy's camp. We are priests in the royal kingdom – adopted - Ephesians 1:5 - Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,

Colossians 3:1–4

3 ^bIf then you have been raised with Christ, seek ^cthe things that are above, where Christ is, ^dseated at the right hand of God. 2 ^eSet your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. 3 For ^fyou have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ ^gwho is your¹ life ^happears, then you also will appear with him ⁱin glory.

 

Get a spiritual mindset and go about the father’s business. Praying for others taking care of it in the spiritual realm. God must take us to the spiritual realm – go above and beyond – set up above the rulers and authority down here. Stop giving power to the enemy. This is identity – I am not Jesus Christ – but we are to be like him, we are in his image. We are made in his likeness.

Ephesians 5: Be imitators of God. Dearly loved children, not as adults. Allow the holy spirit to uncomplicate us more simply toward the things of God, as a child, be more like Christ by being an imitators of God.

Let’s look at the fruit of the spirit – The character of God after Jesus – God sees us through the blood of Jesus.

·         Love…

·         Joy…

·         Peace…

·         Patience…

·         Kindness…

·         Goodness…

·         Faithfulness…

·         Gentleness…

·         Self-Control…

·         So Paul, in 1 Corinthians 13 is describing what God is like…

·         God is patient…
God is kind…
God does not envy…
God does not boast…
God is not proud… if anyone in the universe has a legitimate reason to be proud, it would be God)
God does not dishonor others…

·         God is not self-seeking…He is God
God is not easily angered…

·         God is not easily angered…
God keeps no record of wrongs… (this is one of the biblical clauses that messes with our theology. How would your view of God change if you realized he wasn’t keeping track of your “wrongs”?)
God does not delight in evil… (it grieves him!)
But rejoices with the truth…
God always protects… (this makes me feel safer) – Ps. 91 – Job 10 – he is our hedge of protection.
God always trusts… (think of the work he has entrusted to us!)
God always hopes… (he hasn’t given up on any of us, and never will!)
God always perseveres… (talk about staying power)
God’s love never fails… (Period. His love ultimately triumphs. Is that a comforting thought?)

 

These are the characteristics we need to be more like Christ. The entire bible (old and new) is based on the love of God – heart, soul, and mind, others as ourselves. Do we always love god with our minds?

How do we act like God?

This entered our hearts through the spirit of the Lord. But we wrestle with our identity in the flesh instead of the spirit. The fleshly thoughts are what get us in trouble with ourselves. We step out of God’s identity in us into the flesh, which is the opposite side of God. How through satan throwing fiery darts.

How you identify in this life will determine how far you go in this life. Not by heroes on earth but by those who are sitting in heaven – aim higher. Aim towards the throne.

We must be imitators of God – like a child who wants to imitate their father.

Jesus identified with his father and talked about his father. Jesus said I don’t speak unless the father spoke to me first. Everything Jesus did was the spirit of God working through Him. We should have the spirit of the Lord Jesus working through us.

When we identify with that relationship, god has made us his children, and the world can change because we are changed. Don’t allow this world to choke you out. Especially what is happening right now.

We are seated in high places. That means above the enemy. We can trample scorpions and snakes. God will not allow us to be tempted more than we can handle. So rejoice.

It is finishing your race with the joy of the Lord. Joy is not determined by circumstances. Joy comes from within. Joy is the fruit of the holy spirit within you – spiritual joy.

The Lord loves you and wants all of us to be transformed to the next level.

John 1:12 “But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: [13] Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.”

Authority – to become sons of God. God sends you and commissions you and is behind you. Those who received him power and authority to become sons of God. You don’t have to be physically strong.

You can carry the power and authority – sent us into this world. Everywhere we go, foot treads – we trample on scorpions and snakes. That is our identity. We are sons of God – with authority and power through Christ.

The enemy fears you when you are sent. You are commissioned. You carry weight in the spirit. The glory of the Lord.

We identify that God speaks. Things start breaking apart. When God stepped on Mount Sinai, the rocks split. Things obey and get out of the way.

You can change history from your house because of authority when you pray. You identify with Jesus Christ, he shows up. God has called you to be a voice. To break the powers of the air. Evil and unrighteousness. Speak it knowing the father has sent you and speak it to the air – declare.

God knew every person and knew their purpose and plan. So, we accept the Word of God for our lives. Not the lies of the enemy (the devil) that lie against our identity in Christ. Not the lies that maybe your parents have said or ex-husbands that said evil about you. Or what the enemy whispered in your head, and you believed it. We do not fight flesh and blood. You can believe God for him to come and visit you.

We have the authority and power to cast out demons lay hands on the sick and the dead raised not on our merit but through our identity and purpose in Him.

John 15:15 we are a friend of God. We are no longer slaves or servant but a friend of God. God shares intimately for what he has for his kingdom to include you into his plan. You must be filled with the spirit of the Lord to come into authority and power.

Phil 1:6 “he does a good work in me – will bring it into completion. You and me. What he started in your, he will finish it. He’s already seen it.

This life is not about fulfilling goals. This life is about knowing him. If you know him, you have everything. Then, his favor causes you to experience things in this life that are a gift. If you prosper, God’s favor will smile upon you. It is unmerited.

You cannot do anything for God to love you more by trying because it is a gift - nor to get him to love you less – it is impossible, even when you sin. Nothing separates us from the Love of Christ.

You get his attention. How do you get his attention?

When you seek him diligently, he is a reward to those who seek him diligently. Hebrews 11. Enoch walked with God. God was so pleased with him and took him to heaven.

In God’s eyes, we are made in the image of God, and through the blood, we are perfect. Completely forgiven. There is nothing that needs improvement.

Working out our salvation with fear and trembling. This is working with the Holy Spirit to help us. He always causes me to triumph over him.

We are righteous and our steps are ordered. God has determined because you have come to him needing help. The next step is the supernatural. Faith is the title deed for what you cannot see – what you believe in. Faith is the substance not seen in Hebrews 11:1.

You can change a country through prayer. You can change the course of your life and your neighbors’ life and change your country. We need to get rid of – party systems, country, etc. Jesus just preached to his people. We have been ordained to carry out his ministry.

Once you realize who you are, you will know what you are supposed to do. You must know who you are and that you are a child. You start to walk into authority. Then, the mission is more straightforward. You are the head, not the tail, you are above and not underneath.

You are implemented at salvation into the kingdom – identifying with him. We don’t work for God. When we preach the gospel, I identify with the Father because we love him and know he loves us. Proclaiming the gospel is not work but a lifestyle. He has given you authority to trample the enemy to sow a seed to others. Helping others.

In the world standards, We are taught you must qualify – train, education, constant advancement, and stress. We are never good enough to qualify. God’s way is who you are. The value of people was determined when you were born. It is not your job. But you are made in his image. He determined the good works you would do. He will talk to you on His level. Jesus came down to our level to do it right. He died for us. He has already come to your level, would you come up to my level and sit with me in the heavenly realm? Be raised with him in power – supernaturally.

Get out of the victim mentality or the trying mode. Isaiah 55: he sits on his throne, and he speaks – word goes forth he waits for it to come back – not void. It accomplishes that he attended – he speaks his word. Hope is sown in your heart – so that you can participate in divine nature – we are partakers of divine nature. Because you are his child.

Paul said where the spirit of the Lord is there is freedom. Your freedom is in Christ when you grasp and believe His word in who you are. Not others have said to you. You belong to Christ, not those who speak evil. They don’t define you. God does this through His divine nature and the Word of God.

If you would catch the vision for the kingdom of God, the transformation. The war Satan has against you does not mean you’ve done anything wrong. The victory is in Christ.

Jesus took your past, and he has forgotten it, so you need to keep it under the blood because Jesus already cleansed you with the blood of the lamb. Don’t allow the enemy to steal your identity. In John 10:10, he came to kill, steal, and destroy. Destroy what? Get you to believe you are not forgiven, loved, or accepted.

You have the divine nature, the mission, and revelations of who you are and who he is. You will have warfare, but you will win.

You have a choice.

 By: Traci Morin Ordained Min­is­ter, Coach, Writer, Pub­lic Speaker, Leadership Mentor

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Don't Be Fearful Trusting God

Don't Be Fearful - Prov 22:6

God is in Control

Don't be fearful or disheartened by the state of the world, but be hopeful in the Lord that He can do something about it. He does hear our prayers.

Every person in history has been placed in the time they were in because of God’s sovereign plan.

He knew Daniel could handle the lion's den.

He knew David could take Goliath.

He knew Esther could handle Haman.

He knew Peter could handle persecution.

He knows every challenge faced in life. God is in control of everything.

God isn’t scratching His head wondering what He will do with this world mess.

He has an army He’s raising up to drive back the darkness and make Him known all over the earth.

Don’t let your fear steal the greatness God placed in You. Jesus carries the weight we carry if we let Him. He wants you to cast your cares to Him because He cares - 1 Peter 5:7. Jesus is our perfect peace. Jesus is peace, so turn to Him and trust Him. He is worthy to be trusted.

God's sovereignty is essential to who he is; he has supreme authority and absolute power over everything.

Coach Teresa Morin
Anxious2Victorious Women 12-Week Program - Break the Cycle of Anxiety by Learning how to get rid of anxiety fast - FREE digital downloadable book PDF

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